Wednesday, February 26, 2014

An Inconvenient Christmas

Sebastian Beyer
ESL 100
February 26th, 2014
3rd Draft
An Inconvenient Christmas

The United States of America. This is the land with unlimited possibilities where you can do everything whatever you want! Everybody's dream is it to visit the U.S.A. and I made it. Now, for almost a half a year, I have been separated from my family and friends in Germany. I never left Europe before I got to the U.S. not to mention stay away from my family longer than three weeks. Despite it was the first time I didn't celebrate Christmas with my family and I was sure that would affect me a lot.

I love all the traditions my family and I have for Christmas, New Years Eve and all the other holidays. However I didn't realized the real meaning for me of the celebration, until Christmas was almost knocking on the front door. While living in the U.S, I noticed the change of culture and different holiday traditions and it made me feel homesick for the first time since my arrival.


I didn't realized that Christmas and New Years Eve were already right around the corner because I was so busy with my Au Pair job. I enjoy my American lifestyle here and all it’s benefits including shopping on sundays, the awesome skyline, different people and places and the climate. Therefore it was not bad at all that I moved away from Germany to Chicago. For Christmas, my host family and I went to Disney World in Orlando, Florida. For a week we stayed at a hotel together with the parents of my host mum, who are living in Florida. It was fantastic because we had awesome weather and the park was not too crowded. But for me it was very untraditional to go on December 24th to Disney World, with the knowledge that my family in Germany is celebrating Christmas Eve the way Im used to.



Moreover, I missed my typical Christmas elements and the feeling I used to have in Germany. Back in Germany we saw the Christmas movies on TV, heard the special Christmas music my mom always plays. She also lights up one of the four advent candles every sunday before Christmas Eve. My first Christmas in the U.S was quite different than they were in Germany. Of course I didn't have my real family around me. It was the little things I like for instance decorate the house with my brothers, have my special dessert made by my mother, were in my familiar environment and long breakfast/tee-time with cake and cookies and dinner talks with the whole family. Last but not least having fondue as dinner for Christmas Eve and celebrating the special day on December 24th and not on December  25th. All those points caused that I wasn't able to have the right Christmas feeling.

Finally, I believe that my host mum only sees me as a “worker”. In detail I recognize a clear difference of treatment between my host dad and my host mum. She is not that openminded like him and it is also hard for me to have a conversation with her when it’s not related to my host kids. That gives me more the feeling to be not that included to the family, over Christmas, which is one of the most important things! My host dad is the totally opposite of that. He is always relaxed and very kind to me. He is always asking how am I doing, what is very mindful.
Hence, there are so many differences between Christmas in the United States and the Christmas in Germany I grew up with. Although I had to become accustomed to the many possibilities available here in the United States. For instance a spontaneous Christmas vacation to Disney World but I still miss my native Christmas traditions. At the end I realized that it is not the same feeling at all to have just my host family around me.  People may ask which culture I like best. The answer is that I will always choose the German traditions and culture because for a great Christmas, I need my real family and friends around me to be able to enjoy and celebrate my perfect Christmas.

6 comments:

  1. Hi Sebastian, I like the part you talked about the travel in Disney World in Orlando, Florida. I was planning to visit there last year; however, I had to cancel it due to some reasons. It seems you had a really good time there. I hope I will have another chance to go there this summer.

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    1. Oh you definitely have to do that! It was so great! But try to do it during the week when it's not too crowded! ;)

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  2. Hi Sebastian. I like the part that you talked about the christmas in your hometown because I know that the christmas is the same important as the New Year in westem country. In addition, I like christmas as well because it is a wonderful festival and it will has many kinds of funny activities in this day. I am looking forward to it.

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    1. Thank you Kathleen that you fell the same about what I wrote :D

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  3. Hi Sebastian.
    Each country has own Chirstmas celerbration style, and it is true that own home country's celebraion style is best. I think that in the Chirstmas, most happy thing is to be with family.

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